The Dangers of Working Alone: Why Women are Discouraged from Going it Solo
In the 21st century, women have the same opportunities as men to succeed in business and enjoy the financial rewards of their hard work, but it’s no secret that sexism still very much exists in today’s society.
The
average woman will spend approximately 15 years of her life working, which
means she has many opportunities to experienced treatment in the
workplace or during job interviews.
Isolation
A lack of social interaction can have detrimental effects on health. People who feel lonely tend to have higher stress levels, which leads to higher blood pressure and a weakened immune system.
They’re also more likely to suffer from depression, heart disease, and even physical pain than those with regular interaction with others.
In many cases, loneliness can lead people to work longer hours or choose jobs that require less human contact—both behaviors that often lead to further isolation.
If you find yourself working
alone all day, consider volunteering at an organization you care about. It will
help you maintain connections with other people while giving back to your
community.
Fear of failure
The single greatest barrier to women’s entry into traditionally male occupations is a fear of failure. This isn’t just a problem for young girls, either. A CareerBuilder survey found that 65 percent of U.S.
workers were worried about being replaced by technology and automation in their current job—and that fear may push women out of fields where they could excel once they become mothers and caregivers.
23 percent believe that motherhood is a barrier to career advancement, according to another national survey by Glassdoor. com.
To tackle these fears head-on, seek mentors who can help you learn from mistakes rather than dwell on them, and ask family members to stop asking Are you sure?
when you decide to work alone or pursue an unconventional
path. Fear of public speaking: You might not be giving speeches at your office
every day, but public speaking ranks among Americans’ top fears overall.
When you don’t have a co-founder, you also lack a co-fall
person
While a solo entrepreneur can certainly go under, they rarely have to worry about taking down their entire company. This lack of liability is appealing for some, especially those who value freedom over all else.
Of course, sole founders also don’t have access to co-founder benefits like complementary skills, varied perspectives, and knowledge sharing. There’s no I in the team—but there might be an I in jail if you forget to pay your taxes on time.
In fact, with less oversight comes more risk. Just because you’re not directly accountable to anyone doesn’t mean that you won’t be held responsible by others. It’s easy to fall into bad habits when working alone; accountability partners help keep each other in check by serving as sounding boards and mentors.
As Dave Evans says, [A]lone means lonely, which means risky
decisions get made out of desperation...A partner will hold you accountable
even when nobody else will.
There is no female support network in the tech industry
This creates a detrimental feedback loop. Many women leave tech fields because there is a lack of encouragement and opportunities for them to advance in their jobs.
This means that fewer job opportunities exist for women in tech, resulting in fewer women joining those workforces.
As fewer and fewer women enter these industries, there is a smaller support network available to support them while they're working as well as when they're ready to step away from their careers. And so on. It's like an endless cycle!
The
only way to break out of it is by showing more women that they can succeed in
tech, and by giving them more examples of other successful female leaders in
technology. We need more role models!
No excuses. Just get over it and push forward.
If you want to start your own business, you’re going to have to work a lot harder than you ever have before.
There will be tons of
challenges along your path, but don’t let them stop you. No matter what
setbacks may come your way, keep pushing forward and think only about how much
better things will be when you take that first step towards success. You can do
it!
A woman's place is in her home: While many women would like to believe that they can have it all—successful careers and happy families—the reality is often far different.
That’s because society has long perpetuated
antiquated stereotypes about women being naturally suited for homemaking roles
while men are naturally more suited for working outside of their homes.
Strength comes from vulnerability.
It’s often said that women who work alone as freelancers or otherwise face a barrage of abuse and harassment, making it harder for them to do their jobs effectively.
But in addition to all that, being alone is actually demoralizing. Studies have shown that people are more productive when they’re part of a team, even if they aren’t directly working with others on something.
The camaraderie makes us feel good about ourselves and our abilities—and thus
more motivated to tackle difficult tasks. In short, we need each other—even if
we don’t realize it at first.
Suggestion
Whether you work at home or in an office, there’s no denying that having some company in your workspace makes things easier.
But despite greater numbers entering fields like science and engineering, which require solitude to focus on research and problem solving, there’s still a stigma against women who don’t crave social interaction while working.
The fact is,
being alone can be incredibly beneficial for productivity—but only if you know
how to make it work for you. Here are five tips for thriving as a woman working
alone:
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