Learning how to be independent

 Assalam-o-Alaikum to all my readers and welcome to world of happiness.Hope that you will be enjoying your good health.

Our happiness depends on organising ourselves that is called Independency.It means about our mission,time and work.

Every educated person want to set up their system himself.He want to get freedom.He does not want to refer others.

No person want to controlled by another person or society.He own himself that enhances his personality and make it affective.

There are different criteria of different people.Today we will discuss about basic independent tips that will actually help you to spend life with your willing.

It improves motivation and confidence that will help you to write your destiny in golden words.Moshe Dayan said:  

                                                                                                                        "Freedom is the oxygen of soul"


                                 



                                                                                                                                                                       In my life,freedom is more important than life.So,don't compromize on your freedom.We will learn in this blog about being independent.

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                                                                                                                       Tips for living independently 

                                                                                              1.Get your finance resources...           
                                                                                              First of all if you are in study life or not earning,find your earning resources .

It can be little effort but you have to do.Own yourself and fulfill your needs also as self.You can manage your life by that  tip.Independent life is much easier than dependent but it wants little effort.
If you are not earning by trying all ideas,then start saving money.

You can invest money on your needs.You don't have to ask someother for investing on you.It must be followed by every person.

Find  earning ideas of your department and  then work on it.It helps a lot to live an independent life.                                                 
        



      2.Do not listen dishearten words and people    
                                           Do not hear the person who demotivates you.He can't see your success and independent     life.

He  will never believe in your abilities and ask you to avoid your dreams and inspirations.He will be killer of your freedom.

You can be destroyed by that person.But you have to scan that person.He can't be your well wisher who objects on your work instead of praise.

You have to avoid these person who are in super veil.

It doesn't mean that stop trusting on people.It is wrong.There can be many person in your circle who actually cares about you.Take advice from them.
                                                                                           "A flower never thinks of competting flowers next to it.It just Blooms"                                                     



                                                                                                                                                                              3.Stop compairing with others  
                                                                                                                                                             Most important step to live life independently is that resist about comapiring with others.

There is very common to compare persons with others.Mostly youngers are compared with their relatives,friends or their own siblings.

It is not justics with this community.It spreads negativity in thier hearts .They want to dominate on others.Somebody can fall in depression.

When you don't have any comparison,your life becomes very easy to live.You will be free of tention and enjoying your freedom as well.

Comparison is a disease that disappoints every guy and become trouble.We have to overcome this disease.                                                                                                                 





                   4.Take part in decisions    

                                                                                                                         This tip is also important like others.It tells about our decisions that we commomnly put on others.

It is deficiency of independence.If you want to live independently start taking your decisions.You also have to include your dears but final decision will be of yours.

It creates confidence on yourself that can be utilized in tough times.When you decide to do something,it is your duty to fulfill it.Don't ask people to choose for you.

You have given a good mind and skills.You are able to choose best for you.It can cause  damage in first time but you are bouded to take decisions if you want independent life.

It will make you able for it and also gives experience of situations.      

                                                           




                 5.   Depend on GOD.                                                                                                                                                  Most imporatant tip  to live independently is that you should depend on GOD.He will make you indepedent from the whole world.

He will be your teacher.You have to follow all the lessons.Put all your things on GOD.He will find best for you.You have to bend against GOD.

He will give freedom of these people in the world,support you financially.emotionally  and physically.He is sufficient for all  people.Try to be his friend.

He knows about bad and best                                       
                           " You should not rely on people,but rely on him".           
                                                                                  



                                                                                                                                                                              Stay well,stay happy.Keep commenting and don't forget to view others blog.Thank you for supporting.Take care and ALLAH HAFIZ💛💛💛
             

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